Kill the cat

Greg Wyatt • November 5, 2023

Curiosity is a funny thing. It can drive you to find out more. It can lead to credibility-popping disappointment.

And it always comes from less, not more.

Enough information to prompt action, rather than giving all the answers immediately.


A master and charlatan of curiosity in film is JJ Abrahams.

If you’ve ever watched Lost, the unveiling mysteries of polar bears, smoke monsters, hatches and numbers drew millions of watchers, and lost most of them due to unanswered questions.

I think we’re lucky there was enough popularity it came to a conclusion with a number of heavenly resolutions that certainly pissed me off.

I watched it again recently, with my eldest, and it’s actually better without the curiosity of ‘what next’ between seasons.

A double-edged sword.

Now I wouldn’t expect you to sit through six seasons to see if your opinion matches mine, but if you’ve a couple of hours, try Mission Impossible 3.

It features the best and worst of JJ Abrahams.

An opening scene that features a WTF moment only resolved in the film’s final minutes, done in the most Mission Impossible of ways.

And a mystery MacGuffin, in the device that drives the film’s plot, and they can’t even be bothered to say what it actually was. Probably because JJ couldn’t think of an answer satisfying enough.


So it is in recruitment.

Curiosity is a key attribute to have, but if disabused can lead to people making the wrong decision, because they no longer believe what they were buying into.


I’m driven by curiosity.

  • How does this work?

  • Why does that happen?

  • What’s driven this decision?

  • How does the context influence the strategy?

  • What’s the real reason you want to move jobs?

  • Why haven’t you spoken to your boss about that?

That kind of thing.

I struggle with ambiguity, and curiosity is a weapon for finding clarity.

With clarity comes certainty.

Why a role will be right for the right candidates.

Why a candidate will be right for the role.

Why a candidate isn’t right, and why they shouldn’t pursue an application.

Indeed that last line is one reason I don’t work on competitive contingency recruitment.

When I know a candidate won’t work out, only to see them shoved forward by another recruiter, get the job, then leave after six months because they were never right - that pressure of first past the post makes a qualitative service less effective.

Surely it should be our job as recruiters to prequalify out the wrong candidates?


While curiosity might underpin my approach, it’s also an opportunity to start conversations.

Create enough ambiguity that a candidate or employer wants to learn more.

Rather than aim a clever pitch at them, where it’s the quality of the message that has prompted a reaction, not its substance.

Both approaches can be effective.

But for me, if I’m curious whether a prospect should be interested in what I’m offering, that curiosity can be reciprocated.

I know what I’d rather lead a conversation with - the curiosity to learn more, rather than an emotion that may or may not relate to what’s being offered.

Lead with a pitch, and that party orients their conversation around the pitch, making it harder to establish whether it’s right for us both.

Lead with curiosity, appropriately dangling the carrot of opportunity, and you can have a more open conversation that finds an objective no as quickly as possible.

Isn’t it better to remove prospects that were never going to be right from consideration as early as possible?

A prospect that might interested in conversation, but was always going to accept a counteroffer, or was never going to subscribe to my way of recruiting.

Candidates and employers, both.

Why lead with a promise that you don’t know can be fulfilled?

I find it interesting that leading with curiosity is considered an excellent approach to sales.

I’d cold-called that chap, with the suggestion of a good opportunity yet focused on understanding how he might want to improve his lot.

As Jeff says, he persuaded himself.


There are many ways to peel an onion.

Whether that’s how you approach your inbound and outbound work - AI, copywriting, cold prospecting, driving curiosity, or having such a brilliant role that candidates would be foolish not to consider it.

In an industry driven by volume KPIs, curiosity may seem too vague an approach. Sell, sell, sell! Someone might bite.

But if you haven’t considered leading with curiosity, you’ll never know, and who would be satisfied with that?

Regards,

Greg

p.s.

By Greg Wyatt February 26, 2026
So here were are, the start of a new series. This series may be around 10 editions, looking at the things other industries do that we can implement into recruitment. These were written 3 years ago, right at the start of the AI zazzle, and in some ways have dated quite a bit. In others, the way in which they haven't dated at all, because the principles of how we live our business lives can be universal. So, I'm not sure yet, how much editing I'll do, whether there will be any inclusions, or whether I'll leave articles intact, as a moment in time. I've learnt all of these notions from candidates and clients, as I came to understand the function of their vacancies. Hearing about the daily practice from people doing jobs, I couldn't help but notice the same relevance in recruitment. So while these articles are hardly comprehensive, perhaps they'll make you look at your candidates differently, in what we can learn from them, and how that might improve our recruitment. Why five? December 2022 Ask anyone involved in active recruitment what their key problems are, and they’ll likely talk about skills shortages and candidate behaviour. On the face of it, problems which are out of our control, worthy of complaint with little opportunity to find improvement. But what if these were issues that weren’t entirely out of our control? What if we could apply a replicable process to understand what’s really going on, and how we can make a difference? Fortunately, we needn’t invent the wheel, as other industries have already done this for us. One such is 5Y, or Five Whys, a problem-solving technique that was developed by Toyota in the 1930s. It's part of the Toyota Management System that has inspired much of my work. Five is the general number of “Why?”s needed to get to the root of a problem. Often you can get to the heart of the issue sooner, sometimes later. Often there are multiple root causes. More than just solving problems, it’s about establishing practical countermeasures to prevent these problems from coming up in future. 5Y is an example of Toyota’s philosophy of “go and see”: working on the shop floor to find out how things work in practice to find ways for iterative improvement. This isn’t a theoretical idea to try out on a whim – it’s based on grounded reality and almost always works. There are two costs – time and accountability. Here’s a practical example, then a recruitment one. (Names have been removed to protect my identity) Problem 1 : The children were late for school. Why? Traffic held us up. Why? We left the house late. Why? The children weren’t ready on time. Why? Their school uniforms weren’t prepared. Why? We hadn’t set them out the night before. Here the countermeasure is to get everything ready the night before, rather than blame traffic for being late. Perhaps we might have gotten to school on time without heavy traffic, but that is an element out of our control. Of course, here there is another root cause – very naughty children – but better to focus on the simple changes. And sometimes traffic is the root cause after all, once you’ve ruled out other elements in your control. (2026 note: my eldest now often drives my youngest to school. A time laden solution I hadn't considered three years ago. Now I don't care if they're late 😆) Problem 2: Candidates keep ghosting us. Why? They weren’t committed to responding. Why? They didn’t accept my requirement for a response. Why? They saw no value in my requirement. Why? I didn’t create an environment where this requirement has value ( root cause 1 ). Or because they are very naughty candidates, with a bad attitude. Why have we allowed someone with a bad attitude in our recruitment process? Because we didn’t prequalify them well enough ( root cause 2 ) The first root cause is something we can work on by giving candidates what they need, building trust, and working to mutual obligations. There are many ways to do this – I’ve already talked about examples in previous newsletters. It comes down to good candidate experience and reciprocity. The second root cause requires us to work harder at understanding candidate needs, aspirations, behaviours and attitudes at the outset of a recruitment process. There’s a reason for their behaviour. We can be accountable for finding it. That’s no mean skill to develop, yet an essential one for anyone whose core responsibility is recruitment. And it’s hard to do in a transactional volume process, so the question then becomes, does your process help more than it hinders? You can apply 5Y to any issue you come across, as long as you are prepared to be accountable. At worst you may find that the things that were out of your control are at fault. In this case, you are at least armed with good information to report to your stakeholders, by ruling out other possibilities. What’s the point of doing all this? For me it’s continually improving how I recruit, with the consequence, in the example above, that I am rarely ghosted at all. And you can 5Y any issue you come across. Are poor agency CV submissions their fault, or in part down to your briefing and process? Are skills genuinely scarce, or is your requirement unrealistic? Is it true that your agency hasn’t listened to you, or do you engage the right partners in the right way? 5Y has the answers. Regards, Greg
By Greg Wyatt February 23, 2026
What follows is Chapter 21 in A Career Breakdown Kit (2026) . It's a good example of how a job search is an inverted recruitment exercise, but also how the same principles from recruitment can be applied in a job search. Market mapping is one of the first steps of a search process in what is often called headhunting. Here though, instead of an exercise that helps find a person for a job, you help find a job for you. This can be in one chunk, at the outset, and iteratively, as you learn more information. It's a great example of how LinkedIn can be used as a data repository, given the vast majority of professionals are present here. And if they are present here, the insight that is their careers is too, allowing you to identify potential viable employers, who works there, and therefore where else they may have worked, with further potential hiring managers. The snake that eats its own tail. Try doing the iterative work above, every time you come across someone new, whether in an application or in networking . You can use this to build out your network, identify companies to contact proactively. Simon Ward and I will talk more on this in our LinkedIn Live on Tuesday February 24th at 1pm GMT. You can join us, and view the full recording afterwards, here: Is The Nature Of Networking Changing for Job Hunters? If you happen to read this as a hiring authority, market mapping is one of the invisible processes in a structured search. It can often take me 80 to 100 hours to fully map a role for potential viable candidates, given I try to find non-traditional candidates as well as those that are easier to find through sourcing. 21 - Map the market Market mapping is a common activity in executive search. Why wouldn’t you adopt the same approach in your inverse of a recruitment exercise? The idea is to fully understand your market, so that you are better able to navigate it. This is a summary chapter because market mapping is both a strategic and a tactical exercise. I’ll cover some of the How of mapping in Part Three. There are three ways in which to map the market. The vacancies you are qualified for This is about determining which vacancies you should focus your attention on. In which domains does your capability directly apply? This could be context related, if your expertise is in start-ups, growth, downsizing or other contexts. It could be industry related - your process manufacturing expertise might directly apply in food, plastics or pharmaceuticals. It could be job related, with the right applicable skills. Establish where there is a market for you, and if what you offer is needed by that market. Advice on the transferable skills trap (p55) and whether you are qualified (p178) to apply will help. The geography of your job search Where are all the employers and vacancies that you can sustainably commute to? A geographical map can help you target opportunities by region. What resources are available to help you with this map? Searching online for local business parks, even driving around them, can give a list of viable companies to contact. Directories and membership hubs. Local newspapers, social media stories. If you see a company you like the look of, say from an advert, search on their local post code. Who else might be there? The chapter on doorknocking (p241) has more ideas. The people of your network Every time you come across someone you might build a relationship with, connect with them on LinkedIn. Then check out their career history. Who else have they worked with? Where else have they worked? This works for peers, hiring managers, and recruiters - a headhunter in one company may well have worked in a similar domain in a previous one. Is there anyone at these previous companies you should introduce yourself to? What about their listed vacancies? Building out a map of relevant recruiters to develop relationships with (if they answer the phone) can lead to vacancies. Treat it as an iterative exercise. Check out the chapter on networking (p236). This map isn’t just about potential opportunity. It’s also about information that might be helpful now and in future. This might be for job leads. It might be industry insight you can share through content. It may even be topics for conversation in interviews or with peers. Make sure you track it in the right way, whether through Notion, Excel or other resources you have available. With any information, check it is accurate, then prune appropriately. Prioritise on degrees of separation (closest first) and context fit (where what you need is most closely aligned with what you offer).