How To Network For A Job - Jobseeker Basics XIV

Greg Wyatt • January 26, 2026

The following is Chapter 42 in A Career Breakdown Kit (2026).


In a sense it's a microcosm of how any commercial activity can see a better return - which is to put the needs of the person you are appealing to above your own.


It feels counterintuitive, especially when you have a burning need, but you can see the problem of NOT doing this simply by looking at 99% of job adverts:


We are. We need. We want. What you'll do for us. What you might get in return. Capped off by the classic "don't call us, we'll call you."


If you didn't need a job, how would you respond to that kind of advert?


In the same vein, if you want networking to pay off, how will your contact's life improve by your contact?


What's in it for them?


42 - How to network for a job

 

Who are the two types of people you remember at networking events?


For me two types stand out.


One will be the instant pitch networker.


This might work if you happen to be in need right now of what they have to offer or if mutual selling is your goal.


There’s nothing inherently wrong with this but it’s a selling activity pretending to be networking.


If you want to sell, go and overtly sell rather than disguise it with subterfuge.


Lest we mark your face and avoid you where possible in future.


The second is the one who gets to know you, shows interest and tries to add to your experience. You share ideas, and there’s no push to buy something.


They believe that through building the relationship when you have a problem they can solve, you’ll think to go to them.


It’s a relationship built on reciprocity. One where if you always build something together there is reason to keep in touch.


And where the outcome is what you need if the right elements come together: right person, right time, right message, right place, right offering, right price.


Job search networking is no different.


The purpose of networking in a job search is to build a network where you are seen as a go-to solution should a suitable problem come up.


In this case the problem you solve is a vacancy.


Either because your active network is recruiting, or because they advocate for you when someone they know is recruiting.


It is always a two-way conversation you both benefit from. Knowledge sharing, sounding board, see how you’re doing - because of what the relationship brings to you both.


It is not contacting someone only to ask for a job or a recommendation. A one-way conversation that relies on lucky timing.


That second approach can be effective as a type of direct sales rather than networking.


If you get it wrong it may even work against you. How would you feel if someone asked to network with you, when it became clear they want you to do something for them?


You might get lucky and network with someone who is recruiting now - more likely is that you nurture that relationship over time.


If your goal is only to ask for help each networking opportunity will have a low chance of success.


While if your goal is to nurture a relationship that may produce a lead, you’ll only have constructive outcomes.


This makes it sensible to start by building a network with people that already know you:


  • Former direct colleagues and company colleagues
  • Industry leaders and peers
  • Recruiters you have employed or applied through


Don’t forget the friends you aren’t in regular touch with - there is no shame in being out of work and it would be a shame if they didn’t think of you when aware of a suitable opening.


These people are a priority because they know you, your capability and your approach and trust has already been built.


Whereas networking with people you don't know requires helping them come to know and trust you.


Networking with people you know is the most overlooked tactic by the exec job seekers I talk to (followed by personal branding). These are the same people who see the hidden jobs market as where their next role is, yet overlook what’s in front of them.


If you are looking for a new role on the quiet - networking is a go-to approach that invites proactive contact to you.


Networking with people who know people you know, then people in a similar domain, then people outside of this domain - these are in decreasing order of priority.


Let's not forget the other type of networking. Talking to fellow job seekers is a great way to share your pain, take a load off your shoulders, bounce ideas off each other, and hold each other accountable.


LinkedIn is the perfect platform to find the right people if you haven't kept in touch directly.


Whatever you think of LinkedIn, you shouldn’t overlook its nature as a conduit to conversation.

It isn’t the conversation itself.


Speaking in real life is where networking shines because while you might build a facsimile of a relationship in text, it's no replacement for a fluid conversation.


Whether by phone and video calls, real life meetups, business events, seminars, conferences, expos, or in my case - on dog walks and waiting outside of the school gates. Both these last two have led to friends and business for me though the latter hasn’t been available since 2021.


Networking isn’t 'What can I get out of it?'


Instead, ‘What’s in it for them?’


The difference is the same as those ransom list job adverts compared to the rare one that speaks to you personally.


How can you build on this relationship by keeping in touch?


Networking is systematic, periodic and iterative:


  • Map out your real life career network. Revisit anyone you’ve ever worked with and where
  • Find them on LinkedIn
  • Get in touch ‘I was thinking about our time at xxx. Perhaps we could reconnect - would be great to catch up’
  • If they don’t reply, because life can be busy, diarise a follow up
  • What could be of interest to them? A LinkedIn post might be a reason to catch up
  • When you look up your contact’s profile look at the companies they’ve worked at. They worked there for a reason, which may be because of a common capability to you
  • Research these companies. Are there people in relevant roles worth introducing yourself to? Maybe the company looks a fit with your aspirations - worth getting in touch with someone who may be a hiring manager or relevant recruiter?
  • Maybe they aren’t recruiting now. Someone to keep in touch with because of mutual interests. Click on Job on their company page, then "I'm interested" - this helps for many reasons, including flagging your interest as a potential employee
  • Keep iterating your network and find new companies as you look at new contacts. This is one way we map the market in recruitment to headhunt candidates - you can mirror this with your networking


The more proactive networking you build into your job search, the luckier you might get.


While you might need to nurture a sizeable network and there are no guarantees, think about the other virtues of networking - how does that compare to endless unreplied applications?


I often hear from job seekers who found their next role through networking.


This includes those who got the job because of their network even though hundreds of applicants were vying for it. While this may be unfair on the applicants sometimes you can make unfair work for you.


It can be effective at any level.


By Greg Wyatt February 23, 2026
What follows is Chapter 21 in A Career Breakdown Kit (2026) . It's a good example of how a job search is an inverted recruitment exercise, but also how the same principles from recruitment can be applied in a job search. Market mapping is one of the first steps of a search process in what is often called headhunting. Here though, instead of an exercise that helps find a person for a job, you help find a job for you. This can be in one chunk, at the outset, and iteratively, as you learn more information. It's a great example of how LinkedIn can be used as a data repository, given the vast majority of professionals are present here. And if they are present here, the insight that is their careers is too, allowing you to identify potential viable employers, who works there, and therefore where else they may have worked, with further potential hiring managers. The snake that eats its own tail. Try doing the iterative work above, every time you come across someone new, whether in an application or in networking . You can use this to build out your network, identify companies to contact proactively. Simon Ward and I will talk more on this in our LinkedIn Live on Tuesday February 24th at 1pm GMT. You can join us, and view the full recording afterwards, here: Is The Nature Of Networking Changing for Job Hunters? If you happen to read this as a hiring authority, market mapping is one of the invisible processes in a structured search. It can often take me 80 to 100 hours to fully map a role for potential viable candidates, given I try to find non-traditional candidates as well as those that are easier to find through sourcing. 21 - Map the market Market mapping is a common activity in executive search. Why wouldn’t you adopt the same approach in your inverse of a recruitment exercise? The idea is to fully understand your market, so that you are better able to navigate it. This is a summary chapter because market mapping is both a strategic and a tactical exercise. I’ll cover some of the How of mapping in Part Three. There are three ways in which to map the market. The vacancies you are qualified for This is about determining which vacancies you should focus your attention on. In which domains does your capability directly apply? This could be context related, if your expertise is in start-ups, growth, downsizing or other contexts. It could be industry related - your process manufacturing expertise might directly apply in food, plastics or pharmaceuticals. It could be job related, with the right applicable skills. Establish where there is a market for you, and if what you offer is needed by that market. Advice on the transferable skills trap (p55) and whether you are qualified (p178) to apply will help. The geography of your job search Where are all the employers and vacancies that you can sustainably commute to? A geographical map can help you target opportunities by region. What resources are available to help you with this map? Searching online for local business parks, even driving around them, can give a list of viable companies to contact. Directories and membership hubs. Local newspapers, social media stories. If you see a company you like the look of, say from an advert, search on their local post code. Who else might be there? The chapter on doorknocking (p241) has more ideas. The people of your network Every time you come across someone you might build a relationship with, connect with them on LinkedIn. Then check out their career history. Who else have they worked with? Where else have they worked? This works for peers, hiring managers, and recruiters - a headhunter in one company may well have worked in a similar domain in a previous one. Is there anyone at these previous companies you should introduce yourself to? What about their listed vacancies? Building out a map of relevant recruiters to develop relationships with (if they answer the phone) can lead to vacancies. Treat it as an iterative exercise. Check out the chapter on networking (p236). This map isn’t just about potential opportunity. It’s also about information that might be helpful now and in future. This might be for job leads. It might be industry insight you can share through content. It may even be topics for conversation in interviews or with peers. Make sure you track it in the right way, whether through Notion, Excel or other resources you have available. With any information, check it is accurate, then prune appropriately. Prioritise on degrees of separation (closest first) and context fit (where what you need is most closely aligned with what you offer). 
By Greg Wyatt February 19, 2026
I find myself questioning whether I effectively use AiDE, and whether it's effective enough every time I recruit. As an external partner I work low volume, which allows time to do things 'right'. However, when I take on fractional in-house work, I still deploy the same framework, even at mid volume (my highest volume was 55 vacancies in six months). Because it's scalable and can be applied across a whole recruitment system. I wouldn't recommend it to a high volume, high churn environment, though I expect they aren't reading these newsletters. It isn't just about advertising. A current vacancy is at final interview today. I ran an 'appropriate multichannel' campaign, including public advertising, networking & referrals, 'headhunting' (sourcing across LinkedIn and CV databases). My advert was a consequence of my consultations, as was the six page candidate pack provided to viable applicants. My narrow then wide sourcing strategy was a consequence of the same consultation. My written and spoken outreach was also a consequence of this. That I shared the advert and candidate pack proactively, was in part why I had a 100% response rate to my six inmails (it's a niche role in a low population area). What was also interesting was that a number of the applicants described themselves as passive, and there was a significant overlap between the 56 and the sourced longlist. I noted that one of the final interview sourced candidates had viewed the public advert after our initial conversations. I find advertising can be effective with passive candidates, because they can browse without commitment. You'll never know they were there if they don't get in touch, and they aren't going to be interested in a cookie cutter peacock advert. But that gap is a hard one to breach if all you know is "we're a market leading employer of choice". Because we rely on the evidence of what's in front of us. This is the final AiDE piece. I plan to publish this as a short paperback, given I think it stands alone as an approach that can improve your recruitment. Next week I start "Innovation from Iteration" which includes an article on why the Gemba (value from the shop floor) is valuable for recruitment. Where it relates here is that my work with job seekers, and what turns them off from enquiring to adverts, has been so helpful in finding the blind spots our habits miss. While the next series is separate, and was mainly written before AiDE, both show the modularity of recruitment and how you can experiment iteratively, layering on good foundations in a way that best works for you. As I've said before, you can see pretty much all of me through these pieces, which may help you decide whether we should ever do business together. This final piece is about how negative descriptors can attract great people. In the example above, one of the lines I lead with is "this won't be for you if you thrive in a structured, corporate environment." Both because it's true, and because it speaks to frustrations viable candidates may have. Of course I also talk about how they can make a bigger splash in a smaller pond, if they can adapt to a smaller company setting. Pushing and pulling are key tools in the AiDE framework. Negative Space June 2023 “This isn’t just any typical food manufacturing company, with an as-is workforce that only requires handholding and firefighting.” A bit of context: HR in the East of England is fragmented, with many senior HR practitioners being more of the old-school personnel approach than commercially focused. And others adopt the People title with no rhyme or reason. A common reason for commercial HR vacancies rejecting candidates who have identical CVs to successful candidates is that line above. It resonates with many commercial HR practitioners that have interviewed either as an employer or candidate. Firefighting here means the high volume of employee relations common to food manufacturing. No time to do the proactive stuff. I should point out this was a confidentially advertised vacancy. Were it branded or directly advertised, you’d need to think about how this kind of description is perceived, in case you’re seen to criticise your ‘competitors’. When I ran it on LinkedIn, there were 32 applicants, 14 of whom were auto-rejected by the killer question ‘do you have full right to work in the UK’. 10 were suitable enough to call. 2 of these were submitted to the employer, alongside 3 found through other means. 1 of them got the job. In total, I spoke to around 40 candidates before presenting this shortlist. “That line really struck a chord with me, and it’s so true of some of the companies I interviewed with last time”, said the candidate that went on to get the job. She'd also seen their original advert and not applied, because it seemed exactly the same as her current one. She wasn’t the only person to comment so. Disappointingly, not one person spotted the M&S allusion. By highlighting what it isn’t, this line draws attention to what it is: The negative space of a vacancy. It’s actually pretty simple to find this kind of example for any common skill vacancy - I include a niche HR role in this category. “What reasons have you had for declining candidates, in terms of skill sets, context or attitudes?” “Why wouldn’t someone work out in this role?” “Why did it go wrong last time?” The answer’s with the hiring manager. If it’s a role for which there are archetypes for success and failure, you can set the scene while speaking to the ikigai and experiences of your readers. We should be mindful of bias of course: “This isn’t a company with a diverse workforce or where people stay longer than a year” might be an accurate counterpoint to concerns about culture fit and institutionalisation, but perhaps not something you want to advertise. “You’ll hate it here if you’re a West Ham fan.” “If you enjoy the machinations of structured corporate life, this won’t be for you.” It’s an approach that works for many reasons: It sets the scene with texture and candour It appeals to the experiences of candidates and builds trust It tells them they aren’t going to waste their time by going for the wrong job It shows you know the truth of the vacancy, from unexpected angles For readers that enjoy “a steady reactive workload where they can support line managers through disciplinaries and grievances,” they’ll get a sense they aren’t an ideal candidate, confirmed by the rest of the advert. Nothing wrong with what they do, of course, it’s just a different type of HR. It’s an ‘essential requirement’ in disguise that helps readers make the right decision while giving an implicit and constructive reason for saying no It’s unusual enough to be a pattern interrupt that encourages credibility and to focus on the rest of the advert If relevant, I’ll include ‘negative space’ in my adverts, whether above-the-line or below-the-line. If you were wondering about the picture, which is a style you are likely familiar with – it’s Rubin’s Vase, an optical illusion whereby two faces are created from the negative space of the vase. Thanks for reading. Regards, Greg