How to network for a job

Greg Wyatt • March 12, 2024

Who are the two types of people you remember at networking events?

Well, your mileage may vary, but for me, two types stand out.

One will be the instant pitch networker.

A valid pitch if you happen to be in need right now of what they have to offer, or if mutual selling is your goal.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with this, but it’s a selling activity pretending to be networking.

If you want to sell, go and overtly sell, rather than disguise it with subterfuge.

Lest we mark your face and avoid you where possible in future.

The second is the one who gets to know you, shows interest and tries to add to your experience. You share ideas, but there’s no push to buy something.

They believe that through building the relationship when you have a problem they can solve, you’ll think to go to them.

It’s a relationship built on reciprocity. One where if you always build something together, there’s good mutual reason to keep in touch.

And where the outcome is what you need, if the right elements come together:

right person, right time, right message, right place, right offering, right price


Jobsearch networking is no different.

The purpose of networking in a job search is to build a network where you are seen as a go-to solution should a suitable problem come up.

In this case the problem you solve is a vacancy.

Either because your active network is recruiting, or because they advocate for you when someone they know is recruiting.

It is always a two-way conversation you both benefit from. Knowledge sharing, sounding board, see how you’re doing - catch up because of what the relationship brings to you both.

It is not contacting someone to ask for a job or a recommendation. A one-way conversation, that relies on lucky timing.

Don’t get me wrong, that second approach can be effective, but it’s more direct sales than networking.

And if you get it wrong, it may even work against you. How would you feel if someone wanted to network with you, when it became clear they actually wanted something specific from you?

Why wouldn’t they instead cut to the chase and ask directly?


You MIGHT get very lucky and network with someone who is recruiting now, but the likelihood is you nurture that relationship over time.

But if your goal is only to ask for help, each networking opportunity will have a low chance of success.

While if your goal is to nurture a relationship, which may produce a good lead, you’ll only have constructive outcomes.


This makes it sensible to start by building a network with people that already know you:

- former direct colleagues and company colleagues

- industry leaders and peers

- recruiters you have employed or applied through

These are a priority because they know you, your capability and your approach, and trust has already been built.

Whereas networking with people you don't know requires helping them come to know and trust you.

Networking with people you know is the most overlooked tactic by the exec job seekers I talk to (followed by personal branding). These are the same people who see the ' hidden jobs ' market as where their next role is, yet miss simplicity for the sake of ambiguity.

If you are looking for a new role on the QT - networking is a go-to approach, which invites proactive contact to you.

Networking with people who know people you know, networking with people in a similar sphere, then networking with people outside of this sphere - these are networks in decreasing order of priority.

Always go for the low-hanging fruit first.


Let's not forget the other type of networking, if you are unemployed. Talking to fellow job seekers is a great way to share your pain, take a load off your shoulders, bounce ideas off each other, and hold each other accountable.

I call this the Board of Directors for your job search, and it can be a great aid.


Of course, LinkedIn is the perfect platform to find the right people if you haven't kept in touch already.

But it's a conduit to, not the means of, a conversation. Speaking in real life is where networking is at because while you might build a facsimile of a relationship in text, it's no replacement for a fluid conversation.

And not just LinkedIn - business events, seminars, conferences, and so on are all places are the perfect places for proper networking.


Don't think about networking as 'what can I get out of it?'

Think of it as ‘what’s in it for them?’

The difference is the same as those ransom list job adverts, compared to the rare one that speaks to you personally.

Consider ‘how can I build on this relationship’ in how you keep in touch.


Networking is systematic, periodic and iterative:

  • Map out your real life career network. Think about anyone you’ve ever worked with and where.

  • Find them on LinkedIn

  • Get in touch “I was thinking about our time at xxx. Perhaps we could reconnect - would be great to catch up”

  • If they don’t reply, because life can be busy, diarise a follow up for a few weeks time

  • Think about the things that may interest them - an interesting LinkedIn post might be a reason to catch up

  • When you look up your network’s profile, look at the companies they’ve worked at. They worked there for a reason, which may be because of a common capability to you.

  • Research these companies. Are there anyone in relevant roles worth introducing yourself to? Maybe the company looks a good fit with your aspirations - worth getting in touch with someone who may be a hiring manager, proactively?

  • Maybe they aren’t recruiting now, but someone to keep in touch with because of mutual interests

  • Keep iterating your network, finding new companies as you look at new contacts. This is one way we map the market in recruitment to headhunt candidates - you can mirror this with your networking

Like many things, good is often better than perfect, because the chase of perfection can prevent us from action.

The more proactive networking you build into your job search, the more lucky you might get.

While you might need to nurture a sizeable network, and there are no guarantees, think about the other virtues of networking - how does that compare to endless unreplied applications on job boards?

It’s no guarantee of getting a job, yet time and time again I hear from job seekers who found their next role through networking.

Including those who got the job because of their network, even though hundreds of applicants were vying for it too. That may be unfair on the applicants, but sometimes you can make unfair work for you.

And it can be effective at any level. More so at a senior level where fewer vacancies are advertised, but even at the other end of the spectrum, a great recommendation from a contact is worth its weight in gold.

How can you network so that you become that recommendation?

In a tough job search, as part of a ‘multichannel’ campaign, with appropriate use of job boards, personal branding, doorknocking and other avenues appropriate to your circumstance - networking is vital.

Thanks for reading.

Regards,

Greg

By Greg Wyatt February 26, 2026
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More than just solving problems, it’s about establishing practical countermeasures to prevent these problems from coming up in future. 5Y is an example of Toyota’s philosophy of “go and see”: working on the shop floor to find out how things work in practice to find ways for iterative improvement. This isn’t a theoretical idea to try out on a whim – it’s based on grounded reality and almost always works. There are two costs – time and accountability. Here’s a practical example, then a recruitment one. (Names have been removed to protect my identity) Problem 1 : The children were late for school. Why? Traffic held us up. Why? We left the house late. Why? The children weren’t ready on time. Why? Their school uniforms weren’t prepared. Why? We hadn’t set them out the night before. Here the countermeasure is to get everything ready the night before, rather than blame traffic for being late. Perhaps we might have gotten to school on time without heavy traffic, but that is an element out of our control. Of course, here there is another root cause – very naughty children – but better to focus on the simple changes. And sometimes traffic is the root cause after all, once you’ve ruled out other elements in your control. (2026 note: my eldest now often drives my youngest to school. A time laden solution I hadn't considered three years ago. Now I don't care if they're late 😆) Problem 2: Candidates keep ghosting us. Why? They weren’t committed to responding. Why? They didn’t accept my requirement for a response. Why? They saw no value in my requirement. Why? I didn’t create an environment where this requirement has value ( root cause 1 ). Or because they are very naughty candidates, with a bad attitude. Why have we allowed someone with a bad attitude in our recruitment process? Because we didn’t prequalify them well enough ( root cause 2 ) The first root cause is something we can work on by giving candidates what they need, building trust, and working to mutual obligations. There are many ways to do this – I’ve already talked about examples in previous newsletters. It comes down to good candidate experience and reciprocity. The second root cause requires us to work harder at understanding candidate needs, aspirations, behaviours and attitudes at the outset of a recruitment process. There’s a reason for their behaviour. We can be accountable for finding it. That’s no mean skill to develop, yet an essential one for anyone whose core responsibility is recruitment. And it’s hard to do in a transactional volume process, so the question then becomes, does your process help more than it hinders? You can apply 5Y to any issue you come across, as long as you are prepared to be accountable. At worst you may find that the things that were out of your control are at fault. In this case, you are at least armed with good information to report to your stakeholders, by ruling out other possibilities. What’s the point of doing all this? For me it’s continually improving how I recruit, with the consequence, in the example above, that I am rarely ghosted at all. And you can 5Y any issue you come across. Are poor agency CV submissions their fault, or in part down to your briefing and process? Are skills genuinely scarce, or is your requirement unrealistic? Is it true that your agency hasn’t listened to you, or do you engage the right partners in the right way? 5Y has the answers. Regards, Greg
By Greg Wyatt February 23, 2026
What follows is Chapter 21 in A Career Breakdown Kit (2026) . It's a good example of how a job search is an inverted recruitment exercise, but also how the same principles from recruitment can be applied in a job search. Market mapping is one of the first steps of a search process in what is often called headhunting. Here though, instead of an exercise that helps find a person for a job, you help find a job for you. This can be in one chunk, at the outset, and iteratively, as you learn more information. It's a great example of how LinkedIn can be used as a data repository, given the vast majority of professionals are present here. And if they are present here, the insight that is their careers is too, allowing you to identify potential viable employers, who works there, and therefore where else they may have worked, with further potential hiring managers. The snake that eats its own tail. Try doing the iterative work above, every time you come across someone new, whether in an application or in networking . You can use this to build out your network, identify companies to contact proactively. Simon Ward and I will talk more on this in our LinkedIn Live on Tuesday February 24th at 1pm GMT. You can join us, and view the full recording afterwards, here: Is The Nature Of Networking Changing for Job Hunters? If you happen to read this as a hiring authority, market mapping is one of the invisible processes in a structured search. It can often take me 80 to 100 hours to fully map a role for potential viable candidates, given I try to find non-traditional candidates as well as those that are easier to find through sourcing. 21 - Map the market Market mapping is a common activity in executive search. Why wouldn’t you adopt the same approach in your inverse of a recruitment exercise? The idea is to fully understand your market, so that you are better able to navigate it. This is a summary chapter because market mapping is both a strategic and a tactical exercise. I’ll cover some of the How of mapping in Part Three. There are three ways in which to map the market. The vacancies you are qualified for This is about determining which vacancies you should focus your attention on. In which domains does your capability directly apply? This could be context related, if your expertise is in start-ups, growth, downsizing or other contexts. It could be industry related - your process manufacturing expertise might directly apply in food, plastics or pharmaceuticals. It could be job related, with the right applicable skills. Establish where there is a market for you, and if what you offer is needed by that market. Advice on the transferable skills trap (p55) and whether you are qualified (p178) to apply will help. The geography of your job search Where are all the employers and vacancies that you can sustainably commute to? A geographical map can help you target opportunities by region. What resources are available to help you with this map? Searching online for local business parks, even driving around them, can give a list of viable companies to contact. Directories and membership hubs. Local newspapers, social media stories. If you see a company you like the look of, say from an advert, search on their local post code. Who else might be there? The chapter on doorknocking (p241) has more ideas. The people of your network Every time you come across someone you might build a relationship with, connect with them on LinkedIn. Then check out their career history. Who else have they worked with? Where else have they worked? This works for peers, hiring managers, and recruiters - a headhunter in one company may well have worked in a similar domain in a previous one. Is there anyone at these previous companies you should introduce yourself to? What about their listed vacancies? Building out a map of relevant recruiters to develop relationships with (if they answer the phone) can lead to vacancies. Treat it as an iterative exercise. Check out the chapter on networking (p236). This map isn’t just about potential opportunity. It’s also about information that might be helpful now and in future. This might be for job leads. It might be industry insight you can share through content. It may even be topics for conversation in interviews or with peers. Make sure you track it in the right way, whether through Notion, Excel or other resources you have available. With any information, check it is accurate, then prune appropriately. Prioritise on degrees of separation (closest first) and context fit (where what you need is most closely aligned with what you offer).